the most important thing...

I think that it's absolutely critical that we, as humans, understand that life is tricky.

Sometimes the sun is shining, and other times it refuses to do so. This sounds like a simple philosophy to live by, but the fact of the matter is that it is in no way simple. We all know this.

Life is very tricky. Life is very confusing. Sometimes you never really understand what's going on.

Sometimes it slaps you in the face. You feel rejected, and hurt, and you have no where to go.

We all want to blame something for it all. But we're not sure whether the responsibility is in the other, or in the self. Maybe the biggest thing we are facing is understanding the root of our situation and determining how to act in presence of this problem.

Fortune Cookies, for the most part, are complete bullshit. But, I might be valid in saying I have received possibly the greatest Fortune ever known to mankind: "Seek the significance of your problem at this time. Try to understand."

The single most important thing is seeking the significance of what is affecting your life at this time. What questions does it beg? Are you doing enough in spite of it? Are there issues, deep sensitive issues, that need to be addressed in search of some kind of.. resolve?

I don't have the answers to problems. But I think that understanding why is a significant step in the right direction.

regards,
wes